67 seconds
Introduction
1.5 minutes
Because this topic can be so confusing, this video explains what I truly believe.
I've made this video because the language I use in other videos might sound like I am 'undecided' on the topic.
One reason is to help demonstrate the language sometimes needed for many kids listen long enough to your perspective to truly understand you.
It is also language that might help your child be able to fully listen to these videos, by your side, in case that makes it easier to broach these important topics with your child.
You can always have them hear this video too, if you feel it clarifies my opinion for them in a helpful way.
God bless!
7 minutes
How to help?
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Talk with your child about the pro's and con's of living a bi/queer life.
How does this help?
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1) If your child is currently b/queer, you will have helped them navigate life more safely together with you.
2) If they flow fluid in a different direction of queer, or towards straight later, they will hopefully trust and continue their relationship with you, knowing that you care.
3) If your child is not queer, this video will help them appreciate the many positives a straight marriage provides, while equipping them with how to be sensitive to others who walk a bi/queer path.
9 minutes
Why it is so hard to be a girl in today's culture.
And how that may or may not tie into the LGBTQ+ conversation.
55 seconds
For a teen who has identified as lesbian/bi to watch if you think it will help protect them and/or restore your relationship.
Sometimes I've heard girls say…”I think women are sexy, does that mean I am gay?”
Many girls don't know that love and attraction towards a man often only begins when one has found a man who is trustworthy, kind and someone they respect. Sadly, television and their hallways at school do not always show great examples of men.
In addition...
It is also important for a girl to ask herself how often an overly sexual picture of a woman has appeared before her on TV or social media compared to how many times extremely attractive men (without shirts on, etc.) float across her screen.
If men and women were dressed equally in baggy shorts, a baggy t-shirt and no make-up, and that is the only way men and women were ever presented in our culture and on screens, I wonder how things might be different for some?
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